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Sometimes You Just Need to Start

A few days after I signed my Big 5 book deal, I sat staring at my MacBook, wondering, "do I just start a new Google doc?"

As a naive first-time-author, I imagined a book stork dropping down from the sky to hand me an official, beautifully decorated document where I'd write my first book.

In reality, I clicked a few buttons on my MacBook and unceremoniously created a blank Google doc titled MY BOOK.

No one clapped. Angels didn't start singing. I just drooled some of my water onto my hoodie.

Staring at the blank page before me, I froze.

Unsure what to write, I did what any reasonable person would do:

🧹 I cleaned my closets. Reorganized junk drawers. Transferred all my dried goods into glass containers and neatly alphabetized and labeled my pantry.

I did everything but write my book... because I was waiting to figure out how to write it perfectly.

I spent time researching "how to write a book" and "how to structure a chapter," all things I probably should have done before getting the deal.

Every tip I found conflicted with the last.

I decided I had nothing to lose:

I wrote 56 pages of Chapters 1-3.

I waited for Nana, my editor, to send her feedback. My stomach was in knots waiting for her edits to come back. I braced for a whole lot of red ink, but what I really got was:

An education.

She taught me how to write a chapter and how the book should flow... and it was basically the opposite of what I'd written.

It was hard to hear.

I felt like an idiot who got a book deal, but didn't know how to write one.

With all of this (humbling) feedback in hand, each chapter got smoother and easier to write. And each one came with a little less feedback :)

Turns out, I didn't need to wait to learn how to write a book perfectly...

I needed to throw my first pancake chapter on the griddle, let it suck a little, and be open to learning so I could make the next ones better.

I know you might feel like you need to learn x, y, and z before you start the business/podcast/course/product launch...

But perfection doesn't come before you start. It comes because you started.

🥞 Stop planning. Start doing. Listen to episode 255 to hear why waiting for perfection keeps you stuck—and how your “first pancake” move might be the best start your business needs.

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📬 Sam's Strategy + Takeaway:

My strategy for this email was to take a common problem my ideal customer faces (just getting started, overthinking, wanting things to be perfect, etc.) and connect it to a work-related personal story (writing my first book) where I did the same thing.

People love stories they can see themselves in, even if their circumstances are totally different.

I think this one worked so well because I really tapped into something my readers can see themselves in. This 100% comes down to knowing your customer, their pain, and desires.

Hit "reply" and let me know if you liked this email series!! I'd love to do it again sometime :) Maybe in December with the last half of 2026 emails?!


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